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Should I Friend or Should I Go?

I haven't been totally honest.


I have some friends that I wish I were closer to.


They have busy lives (pretty sure I do, too).


They have other friends.


They have other priorities.


I ask to hang out. Or do something special. Or go on vacation.


But it's just not quite in the cards.


And if it is, it's under a tight time frame.


But it doesn't feel good to be squeezed in.


I have been afraid to be honest about it.


That it hurts my feelings deeply.


Because I'm afraid if I tell the truth, it'll be too much drama.


I won't be worth keeping around.


And I can promise you this - I don't have a lot of drama in my life.


But I sure have drama in my head.


But the truth is that if I'm holding back so much, I'm not even being myself.


I don't think I'm enough.


And that's just bullsh*t.


How can I expect people to love me when I'm shrinking shrinking shrinking to fit in?


So F-that. I'm dropping that sh*t, too.


But it's still hard.


Also, I got highly sought-after CERTIFIED FRIENDSHIP COACH (Yes, that's an actual thing), Danielle Bayard Jackson on the podcast today.


Answering all of your questions. And asking - WHY IS THERE SO MUCH SHAME to discuss how we really feel about the depth of our friendships.


Do NOT miss this one. It's a doozy:


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xo,

Allison


P.S. If you're in Atlanta, I'm teaching my first dance pop-up in studio! Come dance with me and bring friends (see what I did there?).


P.P.S. I found the greatest and most ridiculously amazing gift in time for the holidays. I'm OBSESSSSSSED! #notanad


P.P.P.S. Wow - the conversations y'all are having with me on this Belonging series tells me I might have hit a nerve. So glad I'm not alone here. <3 Please keep sharing-

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